Well, at first it seems like a great idea; always trying to see where the other person comes from, what makes them tick, and just generally being open to different types of people and trying your darnedest not to alienate anyone…until the reality sets in. The reality of your oncoming, unavoidable disillusionment.
Once this sets in, it’s all over. You start to see how, despite your endeavors on your part to be understanding, a) it’s never enough, and b) no one else really tries to do the same to you; they get to a point, realize they can’t really use you for anything (physically or emotionally/mentally), and then they leave you more broken than before, and for what? So maybe they can be as open and understanding to you, a little bit of reciprocation of the understandingness? Hardly. I can tell you now, have fun with the disappointments and unnecessary stress if you think I’m dead wrong, because believe me, if you don’t accept this truth and try to live your free, idealized life your going to be in for a world of pain, misery, sorrow, and unabashed rage in the not-so-distant future ~.~